Sexuality - this is mine, tell me yours

The other day I had an interesting discussion with a friend, about sexuality. Always an interesting topic don't you think? Anyway, yesterday I had another discussion with another friend, about how people see us, discussing how strange it is that the people we meet the most (school and work and stuff) barely know us. I mean, they don't know the parts of us that, well, makes us what we are.

I do wonder what my co-workers think of me sometimes. Innocent girly girl? I aren't sure. It is strange tho because with being married, everyone just assumes I am 100% straight. And not that it really does matter all that much but sometimes it annoys me. One silly friend (yes, you are silly even though I adore you) even said that I might as well be seeing as I am married. But it just isn't true.
Being bisexual is part of who I am, no matter who I sleep with. I got black hair, dark brown eyes, bad eyesight and I am bisexual. It's just part of the package and it feels strange sometimes that people don't know that. And still, it shouldn't matter. But it does.

I have always embraced my sexuality, or well, at least since I got out of my first serious relationship and I understood more about myself. Getting out of a 3 year long relationship when I was only 18 was.. interesting to put it mildly. I always been open with who I am, but once you start to work you project this image of yourself and that is what people get to know. Not the real you, the one behind the image.

I find it funny also that some people seem to think that just because you are bisexual you would fuck everyone. I mean, really people? Yes, I like girls but I don't like all girls, no more than the straight girl likes all men. And no, bisexuals don't always have sex with both genders, I find it so funny that people actually think that. Like bisexual people have to sleep with both men and women to be happy. It doesn't work like that.

It is just a part of who I am. Not all of who I am.

Over and out